The birthdays are done for another year for both girls now. High tea and high heels so pretty and girly and stylish with very special friends for the Bluebell. All the friends being picked up by a old style VW camper to get to our house. And a car themed disco for the Fleur, inviting the whole world and his friends. Both parties so different yet both fun. I love my little girls differences and yet both embraces the others dreams and go along with it. Helping each other to get ready was so special and not suggested by me. The little one saying ” let me help you with your buttons because you helped me with my tights” long may the sisterly love last. With her birthday money she asked what her older sister would be buying from the toy shop. ” well she doesn’t have any money, its yours” without hesitation she offered to share it. In the shop she told her sister to have whatever she wanted, it was her money and she was buying. Not many children would have that generosity to the sibling. She chooses her best friends wisely as well, I was so touched at her party, the Pinnate broke and the kids ran for the sweets. The birthday girl didn’t get one as she was in the wrong place, however her best friend from her class walked over, while the other children ran past clutching their finds, she shyly came over and said “Have two of mine, its your birthday.” This left her with only one. I made a point to stop the grandmother who was collecting her, I think its important to share these moments with the carer, let them have the glory. I know my little one would have done the same to a friend shes a nice kid too and I am so proud of her.